2011 m. gruodžio 13 d., antradienis

Intergenerational activities

What concerns intergenerational activities in our society, is that these kind of activities do not have a chance to succeed. And that is because in our society, there is a huge hole between elders. The younger part of society is not interested at all in the older part of society. And that is no surprise, because in our society hanging out with old people is a shame. I don't know why this stereotype got into everybodies mind, but this is the truth. Moreover, I think it is true, that youth and ahe will never agree. To my opinion, young people want to stay young, and thinking about growing up makes them sick. One of the reason why young will never agree wit the old, is that old people reminds the liabilities and blank routine of old people. According to me, the best way to communicate for generations that have a huge age difference is to launch special programs, where young volunteers would go to help or hang out with old people with their own volition. Because trying to do something against your own will, will always result in a failure.

Recipe for successful relationship

Many people are wondering, what is the recipe for successful relationship. Well, there is no step by step tutorial how to be succesfful with your boyfriend or girlfriend. But to my mind, these are the most important things in a relationship:

1. Get to know each other well. If one of the sides in a relationship do not know the other side, this can be, and will be a big problem.

2. Talk. Yes, quite simply, talk. If you have any problems concerning both or one of you be sure to sort them out. This way, you will get to know each other better and will be sure, that if a problem arises, you will always have someone beside you to help you.


3. Simplicity is the key. To have a good time, you don't need to spend money on cinemas, funfairs etc. All you need to do is go for a walk on a lovely saturday afternoon, do a picknick or just sit down for a cup of tea.

4. Don't be afraid to be physical. Hug each other frequently. Hold hands while walking in public, or if both of you are alone at home. Physical contact is as important as mental contact. Without it, you'll be afraid of your boyfriend/girlfriend, because you won't know him physicly.


5. Do surprises. Buy a gift with no particular reason. Don't waste money on precious jewelery, buy something which will be something of your heart, not of your wallet.

 6. Do varyous activities together. Go to the shop, take the first puzzle you see, bring it back home and assemble it together with your lovemate. Doing things together will certainly boost each other's trust and who knows, maybe both of you will find out, that you have a common hobby!


7. If you love someone, don't be affraid to show it. If your lovemate looks gorgeous, say it! There should be no hesitation in communication. If you feel, that you love your friend more than anything in the world, go ahead and say it! Allthough not too many times, because the word "love" is the kind of word that should be spoken, when you really mean it.


Well, I guess this is it. If you will have in mind these simple rules, so tu put it, your relationship should be long-lastind and unforgettable.